Tuesday, May 29, 2012

Changes Every Day

Sunday, May 20th, a week ago, out on the deck

Hi Family and Friends,
The last note I posted was at the beginning of May for our anniversary. At that time Gary was still getting up everyday and we were still able to go to his doctor appointments.
He was started on his second round of chemo 3 weeks ago. His blood work was good so they had no reason not to continue the treatment.

Gary has been experiencing more headaches again. It is getting harder and harder to get him out of bed as he is experiencing some type of fainting spells when he sits up. The doctor has prescribed anti-seizure drugs thinking these spells might be mini-seizures. When he can get up he uses a walker for support.

Gary is now spending most of his days in a hospital bed that was delivered this past Tuesday afternoon. We need to help him more and more each day. Homecare nurses are coming out each day to help with morning care. Our son Ryan is home from college and has been a great help around the house as well as with Gary's care.
It seems like a lot has happened over this past week. He doesn't read or talk much any more. He seems very comfortable in his new bed and still has an appetite (which has been decreasing over the last few days).
He said he likes visitors and a lot of people talking about his bed does not seem to bother him.

The book Gary has been reading the most (May 13)
Not long ago we asked Gary what texts meant a lot to him. He quoted the following:
Jeremiah 29:11, "For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans for wholeness and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope."
Romans 8: 38, "For I am sure that neither death nor life, nor angels nor rulers, nor things present nor things to come, nor powers, nor height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord."

                                                          Thanks from all of us!


We are receiving visitors everyday and lots of prepared meals. We are so grateful as a family for the tremendous support we are getting from family, friends, church, and neighbours.
I know many, many people all over the place are praying for us and we can feel the support of your prayers. 
Most of all I want to thank God for all the provisions and care He is providing. He is also keeping us strong and holding us up as we face new challenges each day. 
We continue to covet your prayers.
Love Joanne and the rest of the family.

Psalm 29:11 “The Lord will give strength to His people, The Lord will bless His people with peace.
                                                  

4 comments:

  1. Thanks for sharing. So glad we could spend time with you all last Sunday. Joanne, you were an inspiration to both of us. Your strong faith and dependence on God is so evident. It is our prayer that God will continue to give you "grace & help in this time of need". Heb.4 We love you all!

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  2. Remembering you and your family in prayer. May God continue to uphold and strengthen you in the difficult times, challenges and uncertainties each day brings. May He give you peace in your hearts, the peace that passes all understanding.
    With love and prayers,
    Ruth Neels (Marianne Overduin's sister in Chilliwack)

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  3. Wow . so much wonderful testimony and sharing on this blog. I was also privileged to d listen to the service this morning ( telephone ) when the family came together for a final goodbye to Gary. What a blessing to share also this testimony and memory of Gary, both by his brother Steve and Pastor Overduin. May it be a blessing to the family as well.

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